Forgiving, forgetting & the 'ol trust issue are so very hard -- it takes a LOT of work. I don't think she should have ASSumed she could just take the girls to her sister's house either when usually you take them when she's at IC.

I think you are doing really well. She's still in the house w/ you right? I still think, w/ the comments she made last night, she may 'figure it out' and come around. Just keep strong and hopefully you guys can end up working things out.

There were a lot of times I never thought H would change his mind and he was deadset on getting a D. I just hung in there.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10