The most important thing in a marriage is communication. If you do the dialoguing and follow the rules, you will have daily effective communication. This will help, but it only works if you do it.
Sara,
The dialogue does work. The problem is that I am not sure if she is WILLING to do it. We are separated and not living in the same residence. I do still have my workbook.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."