First of all she has told you what is on her mind right this moment. Guess what. Who cares what she tells you to be honest. Wait until she follows through with anything. (Also talk to an atty just for cya purposes, always good to have your gun loaded if you are forced to use it.)
Here is where it is time to "Man-Up" and just take the focus off of her and put it on you. This is a buisness and I am serious about that. Right now are you friends with your wife? Are you in a loving relationship with your wife?
Well, it is time to let go and let her come back to you. There is nothing you can do to force her to change her mind. All you can do is make yourself the best availible option for your W and be happy.
You said you feel hopeless. Do you know much about the law of attraction?
That hopeless feeling and negative out look WILL bring more negativity to your life.
As far as the OM. You just said it. He moved her from another state. Now he has to put up with all of the BS of a real R no just one that he had and could take a break from all of the time. Same with you W. It has to run its course brother.
But while it is running its course just do not sit around and waste time. Better yourself so that when it does run its course you are the best availible option out there.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
