CF, what's up man. Good to hear the job hunt seems to be going well. Good luck with that!!!
Now, WHY are you letting every little mood swing from your W rattle your cage? Ask yourself how do you expect her to act? If she's hurt, if she's unsure of herself, if she can't get a grasp on her feelings yet, if she's confused, if she's SCARED, etc. how do you think she should feel and act.
Just be there for her. Don't pursue, you know the DB rules. Don't pressure. Let her come to you for heaven's sake. If she doesn't want to be nice right now, so what? You be nice to her, if she's nice you be nice, if she's mean you be nice, get it? Don't let her roller-coaster make yours worse than it has to be. You control you! She doesn't.
If you want to talk about it, e-mail me some more or something. I'm just here with the door open hoping my W walks through, I got nothing but time!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
