Well, speaking as someone with a very sh!tty attitude today myself, I would say that attitude in general has a lot to do with desire. I don't particularly desire my H recently and it is showing, no sex for weeks. He seems to be on the same wavelength. Getting along fine but no desire at all between us.
You can't tell me Cemar that you do not see how your attitude is affecting the desire BETWEEN your W and yourself. Desire is a two-way street in a M. I'm sure your W senses your crappy attitude and it is turning her off. I speak from experience here Cemar. I am HD. But I still have no desire for sex with H lately. It doesn't mean I'm not horny. I am. But I'm not in any mood to use him to get off. I know you don't like that either. You want "sexual fulfillment". Who doesn't. But the R between the two people has to be solid for that to happen. We are far from that Cemar. Are you really lacking this much insight?
