Listen, I think if YOU want to move stuff around, then you should go ahead and due it. Don't do it for a reaction. Funny...wasn't until after the bomb that I realized that W had removed and put away all pictures of us. She re-painted our bedroom and we had two engagement photos and this thing my sister made for our wedding haning on the wall...and for some reason they never found their way back up onto the wall. Sad.
Maybe those were the "cries" I was supposed to have noticed....dunno.