Thanks ERC, you made me feel better. He's been selfish and shallow for 8 months, why would I expect him to change now. He is taking his frustration out on me. His way of dealing with this is anger. Anger towards anyone that isn't standing by his side. He's trying to get a rise out of me. Well, he's getting a rise, but he is not going to see it. He threatened me with going to court way back in February and he still hasn't even filed for D. If I had to guess, he hasn't talked to his attorney since December. He has a lot of bark and no bite. I just have to remember that. I can't believe anything that he says.
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BTW, I would change the locks to the house so H cannot come by while you are out of town and take anything..... It sucks to have to think this way but I would do it if I where you.
It's sad what my life has come to, but I did this way back in March. I still don't even know if he realized that I changed the locks, but at least I have the comfort of knowing that he can't get into my house when I'm gone.
As far as I am concerned this M is over, if he would provide me with D papers that are drawn up the way that we agreed on, I would sign them and it would be over. There is so much water under the bridge at this point, I think moving on is better. I really don't think that he is going to rake me over the coals with this D and spend all kinds of money on attorney fees, but I didn't think that he would cheat on me and leave me for another woman, so I have learned never say never. I still think that God will take care of me. I gave it my all to help my H and save my M. Flying off the handle at him one time, doesn't make me a bad person. If he fights me on this D, he's the one that will have to look at himself in the mirror for the rest of his life and know that he did me wrong over and over and over and never made it right. If he does take this to court, I can tell you that I will never have anything to do with him for the rest of my life. I don't need someone in my life like that.
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Let your hair down, put on that smoking hot new bikini and ENJOY your vacation....
My hair is already down and the smokin' hot bikini is packed. I always told everyone that I didn't want it to show on the outside that I was going through all of this. I am going on vacation as a confident, hot blond that is happy with the world, at least on the outside.
