H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
With that and the discussion you had the other day with her, it seems to all be about money. You give money she is happy, you don't your the a-hole, something just not right with that picture. I agree that if you had arrangements for riding lessons as a family thing, she should allow them to continue, at least for you and your daughter.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
H-i refuse to discuss anything with you in front of the kids. I know how they feel about (OM), but again that is soemthing that falls in your lap because for 16 years i was not allowed to have friends, and its something i cant undo..as far as i am concerned the loan is dead in the water. You dont want to be used as a door mat, well im tired of being your whipping post. I have made up my mind..after this week you no longer need to pay for my lessons, and I need to know if you are going to continue to pay for D12s. I am going forward with the divorce. I will be turning in my documents tomorrow to my attoreny. I am done. I no longer want to work it out between us. I no longer want you as a part of my personal life. From this point forward I do not want to discuss anything with you other then the kids.
M - I'm sorry this is how you feel. I'm sorry that not giving our family one last chance is what is going to make you truly happy. And all I wanted was for you to be happy. I will always love you and will always be here if you need something.
Then I will not be paying for your lessons this week, I will however pay for D12's.
And now I sit and wait.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I agree, don't reply anymore. She is not getting her way so she is trying to bully you. Just ignore her if she sends you any more emails or texts. The silent treatment is far worse for her. She will get the picture and realize she can't manipulate you.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
You don't know that. If I took my H seriously every time he and I had a discussion, I would not be here today still hanging on. We could have an argument about things and then the next day he would act as if it never happened.
Your wife is just trying to get you to cave. Stand firm!!!!!
