No M is easy. That is for sure. It's all in how you manage the problems. Can you forgive? Should you? I truly believe this is personal choice. As Crazy Eddie was saying, some people react differently. I'm still trying to figure out my own sitch so don't have any real words of wisdom. But I do know that the M evolves over time, just like the two people in it. It's impossible not to. The biggest problem comes I think when one person fights that evolution. They expect things to be the way it was at the beginning or whatever. It just can't be. But how much hurt and disrespect should one person have do bare? Again, we make our own choices. No one is forcing me, you, Choco, or anyone to stay in their M. Or our S's for that matter. The kids are the only one's at our mercy. I guess I try and keep that in mind when feeling sh!tty, like today. LFL
