I have to agree w/ LFL. It's very hard staying in an M when you know your spouse has cheated on you and said and done things that really hurt. Then when confronted w/ those things he said, my H said 'well, it is just the truth.' You then have to figure out what YOU can live with and what you can't. I know they say 'believe only 1/2 of what they say,' however, that's easier said than done. It's not even just the 'believing' part, it's the forgetting part. Forgiving is an ongoing process, but forgetting is really hard. Then there is the trust issue, which is a very hard process to deal w/ as well.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
