And the details might not affect you that way, after all... everyone's different.
Very true. BUT we are all human. And knowing those details is often just salt in the wound. I think with men this is especially true. I'm not sure how many men want to know the sordid details of their W's A and THEN can truly go on to have forgiveness, trust, respect in their M's. As a woman, it is VERY hard to live with the fact that my H left the way he did and I don't really think I will ever have the same respect for him that I did before. Is that my burden? I guess. I am making a conscious choice to deal with it. But it is just not the same. Some days are better than others. I question my motives all the time. Am I staying for the kids? Is that ok?
Choco has a LOT on his plate right now. And as someone who feels like they have been betrayed, it is a slippery slope in terms of figuring out how much information and psychological stress one can handle. Choco seems like a strong guy and I am sure he will be ok no matter what happens. LFL
