Definately, more of the same was not getting me anywhere but more (& more open) disrespect from H. We'll see what happens next.
His 'much friendlier' phone call afterwards was his norm, tho. He EXPECTS that he is ENTITLED to TELL ME (Notice that nowhere was there a "Could I...?" or "Would you mind...?" in his car-borrowing convo.) how I could best accommodate him/his life. Yes, it's a Control Thing as well for him. But in his mind, there is no problem w/ -- 3 hrs after, uh, fussing w/me for an hr over a "My life is separate from yours" issue (kid-sharing) --he acts all friendly-like so that he gets what he wants from me.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D
LOL.
