He did say that adultery could affect custody, so gathering evidence is a good idea.

Now if you lose your love for her, then you move on. The Bible (well, parts of it anyway) says that you can get divorced in cases of adultery. I'd consider that a risk worth taking in this case. And the details might not affect you that way, after all... everyone's different.

a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.