I am not sure I followed all that. How would you say that fits in terms of the HD women on here. I would be totally happy with most of the HD women on here. So if they are tops, then I guess I would like a top.
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My point is -Why do you care at what exact point in a sexual encounter your wife becomes aroused or desirous? If she is willing to engage in activities you enjoy and she is happy with her level of arousal and satisfaction, why wouldn't that be enough?
Because this does not fill my primary need. If my primary need was sex, this would work. But there is no such need. THe needs is "Complete Sexual Fulfillment". This means sex between two people that BOTH desire sex. As the book says, willingness to have sex is not good enough in the long run. As the workbook that goes with it says, "The return of Desire is necessary for the marriage to succeed". The kind of ses that you are talking about is essentially glorified masturbation. Heck, often after I give my wife head and she orgasams, she then says, OK, lets take care of you. Bestill my freaking heart. I get to use her to masturbate.
Can I ask you, would you spend the rest of your life with a man that NEVER pursued you, NEVER showed physical desire for you spntaneously? And if you answer NO, then why would any man be happy under similar circumstances. I don't understand why we are asking men to do without REAL desire will most women get to bathe in it.
