You are a lucky man in a far better situation then I am. As you say, your wife is affectionate OUTSIDE the bedroom. Thats the whole point!! My wife is NEVER affectionate, ANYWHERE. As was liad out in chapter one, LD women often become completely unaffectionate outside the bedroom. THe problem I have is not the sex, it is how the LACK of DESIRE for sex has screwed up EVERYTHING in our relationship. No kissing, very little sex, noi affection. nothing. They are all closly related, if you don't see yourself as a sexual person, you may struggle with ALL of these things, like my wife does.
In your case, you may get rejected and a day or two later you have sex. She also initates sex. She is PHYISCALLY showing you desire, and part of the reason is because she actually HAS some what of sex drive, she is still in touch with her physcial needs. My wife is NONE of this.
You are a lucky man, I would love to be in YOUR position. My wife has a million miles to go before she even pulls even with fearless. My point is that you are getting everything that I want becasue fearless still has a sex drive (even if it might be low). My wife has NO sex drive, and that fact has screwed up EVERYTHING about our relationship. She just no longer sees herself as a physical person. Marriage now is about being "friends", as she puts it, people don't stay lovers forever.
