I need some understanding from the men out there.

[fightingirish]

Thank you so much for your words. And Corri, I do think he is a workaholic. There is no doubt.But Also, I know that he wants to get this new business thriving and he just is asking me for 6 more months to do that. Its just hard.

Yes its very easy to "forget" our relationship because of the kids. I am a devoted mother and I love spending time with the kids, but I know we need adult time.

I think I am an understanding person and I do except a lot of stuff that goes on here, but everyone has a limit to what they can take at a certain point.

We are going away for the first time in 5 years on Saturday to a rush concert. My mom is staying with the kids over night so I hope this will be good for us because I really don't know if he truly wants to be with me anymore or if its just a "job".

Thanks...

tal