That is exactly what she's wanted to happen, LfL. From that first lunch at Olive Garden, the day after I confronted her with my "We Need to Talk" e-mail, what she has wanted is for some sort of separation, and for ME to move out, so that she can carry on a comfortable life of consuming cake. Unh-uh. Not gonna happen.

"Let's see, Wife. You are having an affair, breaking our wedding vows and ripping a bleeding gash in my chest in the process. You tell me you are no longer in love with me, and that you no longer want to be married to me. And you want ME to move out???"

Rrright.
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Chocolateeyes,

That is exactly what my W wanted me to do. She wanted the end the marriage and then have me move out. Even my mother in law thought that I should be the one to move out. Mother in law, love her dearly, kept saying that I need to think about our S3. That he needed to stay at a place where he calls home. W was going to move into her parents house. This was last year. That never happened because W knew what it would be like living with her parents. Her parents were going to make it hard for her to live there.

Anyways, hang in there. You are doing awesome!

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