Choc, It's a shame that an adult acts this way. Unfortunately, only a really, really cold dash of reality usually wakes this type up and I doubt there's much you can do until an LSA is created to get her out and let her "play the ....." but I know that you'll stand strong in this difficult time and show compassion. Love your kids, I'm sure they're really freaked out about the whole "mother acting like a lovesick, raving teenager) bit.