Yes I do have the DB books and have saved my M with them in that after a 4 month separation where H talked of nothing but D he finally moved back in 6 months ago. The problem now is that 2 weeks ago I found a letter from a W he texted throughout the separation who he worked with who he always claimed they had just talked about each others problems.
I do know I'm not exactly following the DB techniques right now but right now it is about what I believe and think H did/did not do. At this moment in time there is no fear of D from H - more like from me if I cannot sort my head out about this letter.
