That sounds like a difficult situation. He obviously has some issues that he is avoiding. He sounds very similar to my H when it comes to sex. Honestly, sometimes I wish my H would get a job and move cross country then I could get over him more easily and find a new man, but I know that is just a fantasy and it would not do my famly any good. He does sound like he is resisting being nice to you, like it is contrived. He needs to miss you. Have you detached yourself already? Maybe you have iif you have been DBing for two years. What happened?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."