Picked up a laptop computer while on vacation so back on-line now.
The go-for-it plan has been working so far somewhat to my surprise. So far xw has not rejected any of my suggestions meals w/kids, movies w/kids and today drinks alone and a date set up for us alone, 5 of us that used to be a family together all day for the 4th. She's brought up and talked about visiting in NJ this summer also. Frankly I'm enjoying the alone time while the with D19,S16,S14 time seems more like the old days which wern't very exciting. Not sure how far I want to take it, thinking about asking her to go on a trip to where we met in Spain, would have been our 25th anniv this year. One strange thing is that when we talk about certain subjects, like our early days, she keeps getting teary/watery eyed, what could that mean? Not expecting much considering we will still be very geographically separated for a while. And will be checking out the ladies in NJ, matchmackers already have a couple of prospects lined up. RJ
