12+ years, early 50s. Faithful me hasn't had sex in 6 years now. Never thought waiting til I felt a man loved me, but looking forward to passionet married sex would wind me up with none. I mean I know the drive wains but I was afraid he had a physical problem, that I could deal with, he was semi affectionate sometimes. But would complain that we'd just had dinner, or it was too late. He never asked to, or tried anything different. That's just physical though. I dont know what the emotional disconnect was. I acturally have had sex dreams about my H. I hadn't been with anyone 6 years before I met my H too.