Start the post sessions again at Retrouvaille, and this time go to all of them and keep doing the work! You are definitely not following the rules of dialogue and things are totally out of control. the last few sessions deal with restoring trust. This is not something that can be accomplished over one week and then you are cured. Love, Commitment, Trust and Forgiveness are all decisions. Start again, they welcome you any time.
I would love to go back. I can suggest this to my wife. She loved Retrouvaille. Our post session was on Tuesday night from 7pm - 9pm and she was tired because she works full-time and has D3 with her. Her days were just too long. I can suggest that we go back to Retrouvaille. If I had my way, we would have completed the program. We actually talked about being volunteers and helping other marriages out when we finished our weekend.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
