I was wondering though... what is you take on this quote...
"If a spouse is wavering btwn responsibility & irresponsibility, confused or conflicted as to which path he should choose, he needs a strong excuse to do the right thing and can almost seem to be asking for motivation."
This is exactly where my husband is at... How do you think I can give him a excuse to do the right thing?? Might need to break it down for me a bit...sometimes my head it thick...lol