Mopo,
I am still contemplating whether/if to call SIL, but definitely won't bring up my concerns about W. I do want her to know that I appreciate her support for our family and that I am not closed off to her/mad, etc. Maybe just send an email?

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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