I am doing well. The W brought up some relationship talk. Not a lot and I didn't push. She asked questions and I answered them. I also took the opportunity to tell her about working on me. That it wasn't anything she had to do. I told her my plan and what I had already put in motion. She took it in stride and said she doesn't know how much she can give. I validated. She later brought up about going to see Die Hard this weekend and i asked her if she wanted to go to a new restaurant that's opening soon and she said that sounds like a plan. So it was a good weekend. There were some struggles with her crying and saying she didn't want to go through this anymore, I said I understood and I was sorry she was feeling like that. So, it is going to be tough, but we'll see.
JR,
She might be interested eventually, but right now she is going to her T and I will be going to mine. She may be willing to go to a support group for what she is going through and people like her. I am just going to take it as it comes. If she wants to talk, then we talk, If she wants to ask questions, then I answer them. I am in the mode of whatever it takes to save this, then that's what I do. Thanks for checking on me.
Dude, that all sounds pretty good. If she's going to her own T, that's great. When she wants to go with you, she will.
Keep up the good work!
I'd love to be going to the movies with my W this weekend. I'm shooting for 7/18, our Anniversary. If I can get something going by then, I'll be stoked. Otherwise, I'll keep working on me and hope for August!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
