When you can say, and mean wholeheartedly, two simple words, her mindset will likely change.
The two words are "your loss".
Getting into the mindset where you can mean those two words is a large part of the battle. But you have to really believe that she is missing out on something good and it's unfortunate for her, but you've got better things to do than cajole her into letting you show her a good time.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
