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We have wacked and confused spouses who are clueless about how to make relationships work. I've stopped hanging around the board much, but when I do, I check your stuff. Man, are we married to the same person? Wait, last I checked, my W was a woman, and doesn't drive a snowplow.... Whew..... But the three oclock thing works, the disinterest works, the feeling of why do I do this works... And the surprises she pulls when I've just about given up works too. We are married to kindred spirits. Laney is in our group too.

Please don't leave here. We need your insight. I need your insight. 2 years on this board has exhausted me, so I don't post much right now (I do in fits and starts...), but I still live to read success stories, revel in the progress of others. And you have shown tremendous progress, even if your dolt of a H hasn't (or my W either, though she tells me and our C that I have... go figure!). Keep posting you progress here. I promise I will too.

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