I'll even go you one further... the way your wife could very well be looking at it is... you can give her an orgasm. So what. I can give myself an orgasm as easily as you could give me an orgasm... so could she. And if all I am getting out of the deal is an orgams... quite frankly, I'd rather give it to myself. It's faster, it's probably more intense, and there is no one arguing with me or glaring at me. I scratch my own itch and move on with my life.
Because my bf and I spend a great deal of time apart... I will scratch my own itch... but I would MUCH PREFER to be with him sexually, and have him scratch ALL my itches, any I can think of or dream of... for what I get from our sexual encounters, I cannot provide for myself. Can't even come close.
