CeMar:

And simply due to the fact that you have been single-handily able to bring those LD feelings roaring back for me today, I have been willing to examine them... and I will tell you... I'm sure your wife isn't having the kind of sex with you that you want, because there is absolutely nothing in it FOR HER.

Technique-wise, you may be the best lover on the planet, but what you inspire a woman to feel emotionally shuts down any inspiration or desire she may physcially have to want to share with you. The fact that your wife goes ahead and has sex with you AT ALL tells me she does in fact love and honor at least her part of the VOWS, and her end of the R. I mean, if you are giving her orgasms? She's doing it for you... not for herself. I'm sure she could go quite a long time (months, if not years) without physcially needing another one... and that is because, like I said, there isn't anything in it for her.

Corri