Ahhhhh. The little things. Sorry you are having a tuff time ll. I can relate. Just a question here? What do YOU want for lostlove? Pardon me if I am outta line here but you can't fix him.....just keep trucking on what you need apart from him? Cause he is not able to meet your needs right now. It is all about him in his mind and it does not include you, sad to say.
Can you focus on yourself and your needs being met on your own? IMHO your H is not able to meet his own needs let alone yours or your kids. I think your H realizes this in spite of his efforts to try to do that but the pressure on him to do this (not saying this is from you) will drive him further away.
My H has very high expectations for himself. His MLC is forcing him to choose between his expectations, his "responsibilities", and what is going to work for HIM right now. It doesn't work at times very well for him or me right now. Thank gawd for plan "B"......lol.
Hang in there girl! You cannot fix this by yourself. Until your H is ready to surrender himself to your marriage and relationship you are powerless. <<<HUGS>>> .
Dang! Wish it was that simple. Take what ya need from this and throw out the rest. Please keep posting and venting and for gawd's sake don't you dare shut up!! We are here for you! Thinking of you,
