LL, I hear you...hope you didn't think everyone was coming down on you too hard...give your m more time...your h has not been home that long...it could take months as they all keep saying..I like what Ange said about no r talks..while I so want to jump in and start r talks..I get a whole lot more out of h when I just ask him about everyday stuff...work..church..and he opens up..I am not expecting much from him right now, so I try to foccus on how I am feeling and project the happiness and calmness that I have found to him...as he seems to also have found peace, we are becoming the friends that we really never took the time for before. So maybe don't expect that your h is fully back..make yourself happy, and that will reflect to him. take it slow... Sue
