You are right. I wish things would have never gotten like this. There are way too many people involved and too many lies. Yes, I know that I shouldn't involve other people, but we need to do what we need to to keep our sanity. His family has helped me get through this. If it wasn't for them, I would have filed for D months ago. I don't want his family to choose me or him. I just want respect and courtesy. I never did anything to them or my H, so don't treat me like I don't exist at least not today. I am still their sil.
They all want me to hold on and wait for my H to come to his senses. They know that I was a great wife to him and that I am a great person, and they don't want to see him lose me forever. I am going on vacation this week and my mil told me to go and get away and try to forget about this for a few days. She said please just give me one more week before you do anything with the D. I am respecting her wish, but when I get back, I am calling his attorney to check on the status and if nothing as been done. I will decide to contact my H or an attorney myself. I am not going to say that there is no chance of me reconciling with my H at this point, but they say if what you are doing is not working, do something else. He is still seeing OW and as far as I am concerned at this point, he chose her and I am done. Unless he seriously shows me that things are going to change there is no hope for us.
