To me an EA is just as bad as a PA. Cheating is cheating.
I thought for the first month or so in the begining my W was diffently having a EA and even possibly a PA. How wrong I was, and that was not by her telling me she wasn't. It was my mind going wild, not saying yours is diffent, but be positive first.
Also after thinking about it, it could be said I was having a EA after we split, but it wasn't. It was a female friend who is happily married and was there for my support, nothing more and nothing less, but to anyone else it could have seemed alot different.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07