He might be drawn to her intelligence, beauty, caring nature,charisma,
Most men ARE drawn to these qualities. I want them, I want them from my LOVER! But NONE of these can make up for LACK of desire! Us HD men love all kinds of things about our wives, but the ELEPHANT in the room is going to be HER DESIRE!
2) Men don't need sex from women, Men need DESIRE from their wives, which can't really happen WITHOUT sex. Again, this can ONLY come from a LOVER, which his wife is supposed to be.
3) If you turn a man down for sex, that is rejection. Once in a while is probalby OK, but we are not talking about that on here. Most LD women turn down most of the time. Also, I noticed that you said if he trys the next day, you will allow it to happen. This is another form of rejection. If EVERY SINGLE time the initiator is the MAN, he will get wise to this and will start resenting you for not pursuing him. Most couples when dating, the WOMAN actually INITATES on many occasions. This is ALSO a huge rejection of the man. Women who really DESIRE their men initiate with them on occasion.
4) People need to be empatheic. True. Men need to try and accomodate lower sex drives in their wives, but LD women must recognise that sex (desire) is crucial to ALL of his emtotions. In other words, he is going to need lots of passionate sex and you should not resent him for the effort you must go through.
