since I was upstairs putting laundry away with dd when h called he got to "talk" with dd (she just gibber gabers she's 1 1/2) but son was downstairs so he didn't talk to him. thinking (and wanting to) of thanking him for calling me as it did make me feel better...I called so son could say hi to h...son was being a typical 3 year old and turned his head..so I talked to h...simply said oh well I thought he'd like to say hi but guess he's in a mood and I wanted to thank you for calling me...h said you don't have to thank me...I said well it made me feel good that you called so I wanted to thank you..h said ok then your welcome..then h started talking about some problem with one of his accounts (he's his own secretary) and some misplaced entries....then had to go as he was getting wrapped up in it.