I truly believe, whether we see it now or not, God is carving the path, with lots of interesting sights, bumps and speeds on the way....all for a purpose.
You and H were meant to have this weekend with sis and BIL. From what I have read, this is the most that your H has opened about the whole ordeal in a long while. And, we've always know that was the real catalyst for change in your R with him.
Of course you're confused. That's OK. Don't be scared of it. You're confused, I think, b/c you are facing a person you don't know, the person you were in MLC. You are seeing the impact of that person through the words and heart of your H. That is confusing, esp since you are not that gal anymore. It's confusing to feel how that all happened anyway, how you got to this point, and where is it all going?