exactly. Sometimes people are selfish. You can consider it a copout if you'd like but I will tell you this right now. If I felt like I mattered/matter to my H, I NEVER would have been vulnerable to any other man's advances. NEVER.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...