exactly. Sometimes people are selfish. You can consider it a copout if you'd like but I will tell you this right now. If I felt like I mattered/matter to my H, I NEVER would have been vulnerable to any other man's advances. NEVER.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok