Well fresh back from vacation, and I need to rest up. I'm a crazy person on vacation, don't rest much just go like heck. I keep saying I'm gonna take one of those quiet vacations where you just lay around and rest, but it never happens. It's go, go, go.
Anyway, nothing much new to report; however, many baby steps. I scored some major points. MEN take notes: I called a cleaning service to have the whole house cleaned right before we left. W was very grateful and I even heard her bragging to her friends about it. Better than flowers and candy. I also bought her some of her favorite candy before we left. She was stressed out as usual while we were packing and getting ready to go, but I was patient. At least until she started snapping at me at which time I smiled at her and told her if she did'nt stop being a bad girl that I'd have to take care of her. Well that kind of took the wind out of her sails and released some of the tension.
We were far more touchy feely than we were on our last vacation. I'm taking most opportunity's to be flirty, but not pushing her for intimacy. It's just going to happen naturally, I have no doubt about it. She's gonna want it more and more and more. She simply can not fight the sexual charm and power that I have over her.
I thought I was going to get some the night we came home, but we were both exhausted. We were at some friends for dinner and W was telling the ladies about this chic that was after me when we were separated. She told them that this chic said "I will have that man", about me. I just grinned a grin like, "oh she was only one of MANY that wanted me"!
I'm going to order one of those little toys for her. See how she responds. I think it will totally blow her mind. She'll not expect that in a million years from me. She'll wonder about me, and want to keep close to me. She'll realize that I just might be able to unleash her inner sexual goddess afterall. Oh she's gonna fall, gonna go wild with me it's only a matter of time.
So W and kid's are all out of town this week. It's just me, the dog, the remote control and my dreams.
Take care all and keep fighting the good fight!
Love,
COG
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