Phoenix, you seem to be moving your sitch. Mostly that is good. I think you are in a real good spot to make it a positive move.
Having said that, be careful not too want to much too fast. I know, how can that be possible after all this time? We have been BB buddies for quite some time, and I am pushing for a change with my H. He and I have been treading in stagnant water for too many years. I am ready (almost) to get out of the muck and make a change for whatever direction it goes, even though I am scared to death it will not go the direction I wish for. I hope that your pushes for change do not mirror my pushes, too many times I see on this BB that many sitches follow another, one changes - good or bad - and there is a flood of the same thing. Maybe I am way off base, but I had to mention this to you. Don't push and change because someone else is, do it because it is feels right and will help your goals. Savvy?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
