So, it is now just after 12 and H calls, says they dropped by and there were a few cars but for the most part it wasn't a go. They (H and friend) looked around at the cars that were there and they are now "grabbing something to eat" and he'll be home later
So, why didn't your H invite you to go along with them or do what I do. Eat half a lunch with a friend then come home and eat the other half with my W.

Ok so why am I feeling rejected?
As I was reading this post, the words "Left out," "HW was second priority," "double standard" came to mind.

Mojo Actually, if I am brutally honest with you, I think you ought to leave your H and hook up with someone like Lou.
MoJo, i don't know what to say.

I don't want to be one of those guys that takls while sticking my or someone elses foot in my or someone's mouth.

I too wondered which individuals would make a good match when I read other people's stories. Match making on the forum is a simple solutions on paper but not easy to do IRL.

Lou is a good example of Mr.MuchBetter or, really, he would be a good example of Mr.MuchBetter if he were single.
Thanks for the vote of confidence. Not being single is sort of a limiting factor, isn't it?

Lou