If my marriage had been restored, I really don't know what I would say. But I doubt it would be much different. What I say takes into consideration that my marriage was not restored. But, honestly, I can see where most of the damage was done before I was ever on the DB board. The bomb shocked me back to reality. But I also know there is a period in which everyone who comes here will spin. Can't help it. my spinning was exacerbated by a poor economy when i was trying to reenter the workforce.
AS for the hospital, I am a 51 year old man. They like to look inside. No biggie. I don't have an appointment yet either. That will happen in a month after my next appointment at the doctor. I was just making a point.