Don't do it eventually, do it now. That will help make things clearer. It'll make it easier for you to move forward. You're holding on so tight that you can't get a clear view of what you need to do to get through this, one way or the other, in better shape than you started. Forgiveness will free you of some of that pain and hurt you're feeling and free you to see things more clearly.
Try it, it can't hurt, right?
I forgave and tried to work through it once JR..and look what it got me. Divorce papers.
I only have two cheeks...
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."