You need to hang on to yourself, your daughter, stop worrying about wife and all that. Take care of yourself, be there for your daughter. Right now is a bad time on a bad day, do not let it take away what you do have.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
You're right 789...all I have left are my kids and me at this point.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
You're right 789...all I have left are my kids and me at this point.
At this point, that is all any of us have. Believe me, I go up and down hour by hour, but I am worth it and so are my kids. I know I want my wife back, but I do not know if it will ever happen, so I do what I can for myself and kids. It sucks, life would be so much better at the moment to have my family, but it is out of my hands for now and that is what I am trying to let go of for the time being.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Leave the door open for W, but that's it (if you're ready to move forward, as Catfan says - not ON but forward.)
I think she blew that door up like a mineshaft collapsing. If I get the job in my hometown. I'm taking it.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
You need to stop focusing on what she did. I know it's fresh but again you don't KNOW if she DID anything........not this time.
You're going to turn yourself into a bitter man by focusing on JUST what she DID to YOU...........what was lacking that made her do this (if she did) - what do you think?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Leave the door open for W, but that's it (if you're ready to move forward, as Catfan says - not ON but forward.)
I think she blew that door up like a mineshaft collapsing. If I get the job in my hometown. I'm taking it.
Don't make decisions while you are upset and angry, it gets you no where, it might be the right decision, just take your time. Take a deep breath, relax. Come on dude, think about something that makes you happy, stop worrying about her.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
UA i've been fixated for the last three years on what was lacking. Really hard on it the last 6 months.
And to be honest, I'm kind of tired of what was lacking arguement. I think it's an easy statement so blame doesn't get cast and everybody feels better.
Well I'm sorry. IMO sometimes a duck is just a duck. Sometimes people are just selfish and wrong in their actions.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
exactly. Sometimes people are selfish. You can consider it a copout if you'd like but I will tell you this right now. If I felt like I mattered/matter to my H, I NEVER would have been vulnerable to any other man's advances. NEVER.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
