Karen, I don't think she's in any mood to receive ANYTHING from me right now. Right now, I'm the enemy, because I'm messing with her crack stash, and taking away her fun. She has been on a cleaning binge lately, trying to get our house ready to sell, and she's been going thru our entire master bedroom. In there are TONS of photos, old anniversary and Valentine's Day cards, notes/poems/songs from me, gifts I have given her, etc. The room is a shrine to our marriage, messy and all.

She'd have to be blind not to see any of it, but I'm afraid "blind she is" these days.

Choc.