Even if I could somehow convince myself that I could divorce her, I would probably wait until my youngest leaves home in 8 years. Divorce now will NOT benefit the children in any way.
I didn't say go through with it. I just said to bring it up, talk about it... let her even know it has entered your mind.
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I am still trying to figure out how to implement boundries in a christian marriage where divorce is not an option and is not something to threaten someone with.
If you haven't already, you might want to read "Boundaires in Marriage," by Cloud and Townsend. It is a Christian centered book. Very Christian Centered, as a matter of fact.
