I disagree. There is forgiveness without forgetting. I've done it. I am doing it. But once bitten, twice shy as well.
I didn't ask for this to come to my attention. It wasn't like I was snooping or spying or whatever. But here it is. In my face.
Sadly the greatest hurt of all is that she doesn't accept or realize that she is loosing the trust of our kids.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."