Quote: Well, I guess the question you need to ask yourself is whether you think it would help or hurt.
depends on whether or not she reads it. she could get angry at "someone" having sent her info that would pull at the doubt about what she's doing. or she could be thankful that someone cared enough to show her there is a possibility of repairing the r she must have at some point had with her h. and of course if she did suspect me she would have reason to contact h if she isn't already. doubt that my h would go back to her, think he's realized the importance of "family" and relationships and knows that there is nothing here that warrents his leaving...other than that lost feeling...wich I see is back just gets hidden occasionally from time to time in the trials of daily living!!