I've already forgiven for one affair that happened three years ago. I have forgiven, but not forgot. I'm not sure I can do it again...and she is definately not trying. It's all me right now.
There is no forgiveness without forgetting.
Likewise there is no repentence without forsaking the sin, so...
Honestly NM, I think you just have to quit worrying about what she's doing. It's a damn shame your D has to be involved in seeing inappropriate things, but you're going to get blames every time. Do what you can to protect D and leave W to figure out her own mess. Stop being available to her and focus on you and D.
What else can you do right now that won't drive you nuts?
Good luck...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
