have to admit it's getting better

[jethro]

Hey LL.

immature love that the r was founded on be strong enough???

Honest to God, does it really matter? I, myself, am so tired of hearing this from my W and thinking about it. I think with my W is she has this idealistic idea of what "in love" should be, but she's never experienced it. Of course, I disagree because of how she used to be many years ago with me. In any case, to love someone requires work. If one's unwilling to work, then there will be no love. I also think that some people close themselves off to the opportunity of really feeling love for someone else. For now, I believe this is my W. She would do the next thing with the next guy...and the next...and so on. She has issues that she needs to resolve before this stuff can be worked out. But these issues are in her head and I have no control. It seems maybe your H is the same way???

ok, so it seems when I have all but given up, h and I end up having a good evening.

LL feeling better and still wanting to send dr and 5 love launguages to ow.

You're still thinking about this, huh? Well, I guess the question you need to ask yourself is whether you think it would help or hurt. It is a difficult decision to make. My W told me that OM is still in love with his XW of three years. In some distant part of my brain I feel like sending him a copy of this book too...but I'm still working through the anger. Besides, he's already "taken" one of my most precious things...() so I don't really feel like giving him anything else.

jethro, feeling a little bitter today, but not too bad...